While Therapeutic BDSM™ and BDSM Therapy may sound similar, they differ significantly in purpose and method. Therapeutic BDSM™ is a structured, trauma-informed approach that supports deep personal healing through a unique “triangulation” method. In this setup, a licensed clinician, a vetted BDSM practitioner, and the client work collaboratively. The clinician offers emotional and psychological support, the BDSM practitioner brings expertise in safe practices, and the client guides the journey through their own goals and boundaries. Together, they create intentional BDSM scenes designed to help clients reclaim agency, process trauma, and foster personal growth.

In contrast, BDSM Therapy is often used to describe traditional therapy that acknowledges and respects the identities and practices of those in the BDSM community. However, “BDSM Therapy” can be unclear and sometimes involves people using “therapy” or “therapist” without formal clinical training or licensing. This can blur boundaries and may even put clients at risk if the practitioner is not skilled in managing trauma or providing therapeutic support.

Therapeutic BDSM™ prioritizes client safety through trained professionals and clear distinctions between therapeutic and non-therapeutic practices, offering a safer path for those who wish to explore BDSM’s potential for healing.